Ok, here is my final configuration - thanks to all who answered, gave their opinions and advice and were interested in what I was trying to achieve. In the end, I've decided to drop the remote hat idea and go with my regular Tama hat stand. Here is my T-Rex, a 1988 Tama Granstar with shells recovered and bought online at Rockenwraps. I stopped using the 13" years ago and still haven't recovered it but the current set up is as follows:
Snare - stock Tama Granstar steel 6.5" (as is)
Snare - Pearl Masters series wood 5"
Toms - 8", 10", 12" (on rack), 16" floor
Kick - 22"
Rack - Dixon
Cymbals and hats - Sabian/Zildijian mix
Kick pedal - Pearl Demon Eliminator converted to left dominant
I've used this setup for two live gigs so far and and have received comments like "WTF?" to "Whoa, never seen a kit like THAT before!". In the end, it's all about the band, the tunes and the audience but hey - this is DRUMMERWORLD, right?
Thanks for indulging me.
Animal.