Just for balance, the next night I did see a really good band. They are around. I don't get out to see other bands that much as I'm either gigging, practicing, or enjoying a night off. Bad bands have good points to discuss here, for learning purposes. I guess they do serve a need in that respect lol. The good band I saw did none of the things mentioned in this thread, they were very pro. My wife is friends with the bass player/leader so I've seen them before. There are a couple of bands with a good rep near me that I haven't seen yet. They are on my radar. I will be the first to say if they are good. I really do enjoy seeing a great band.
I am more influenced by people I actually see than music I hear. You can glean so much from a live performance. Even if they are bad, I learn what NOT to do, which is almost as beneficial as to what TO do.
Can't wait until next weekend. I get to play the Phoenixville (PA) Blues Festival with 2 different acts, plus I get to see a bunch of other bands. And get paid twice lol.