Is it okay to , hmmm, how should i say this.....fraternize with the lovely female guests on a cruise ship if you're part of the cruise staff?
I guess it's entirely possible that someone in a cruise ship band can voluntarily take a 2nd job on the ship, so long as they don't interfere with each other, eh?
Yes, but usually those jobs aren't working in restaurants, galleys, dining areas or in guest cabins. The entertainment staff isn't supposed to be seen doing that kind of thing. It is usually reserved for people at a much lower pay grade, with fewer privileges, and with less public profile. There is a very clear - and sometimes very ugly - class divide on cruise ships and in contrast to many other places in the world, musicians fall on the upper side of that divide on ships.
There are some odd jobs available for staff to make some extra pocket cash - e.g. assisting the photographers, assisting the art auctioneer (a lot of musos did this on Holland America Line) but most required jobs have an assigned function and a person filling that function.
Yes, that is something that can get you fired. You are usually allowed to date other workers on the ship though.No, it is strictly forbidden to fraternise with guests.
Don't get me wrong, it does happen, and sometimes even with a wink and a nudge for officers and well-connected staff, but official policy is that it is forbidden. It's one of a list of things that will usually see you disembarking and flying home at the first convenient port.
Yes, that is something that can get you fired. You are usually allowed to date other workers on the ship though.
Jeff