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Old 07-24-2010, 07:47 AM
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Fellows,

Actually, I am in a position (between a rock and a hard place), where as an strong alternative I must sell my drum-kit and cymbals to pay some personal, family, home issues. You know, uppers and downers, those sort of things in life.

Have you gone through this before? mainly with your drum-kit? about selling it? getting away from it due to force majour?

As a passionate drummer, it's not easy for me to get rid of it - drums. But if I must, one must eat to live, isn't it?.....food for thought.

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Old 07-24-2010, 11:49 AM
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Sorry to hear that.

Apart from getting a loan I can't really think of what else to suggest as it's a very personal matter.

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Old 07-24-2010, 01:55 PM
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Sorry to hear this Ian. I hope you guys make it through this downer soon. Get some pratice pads in the meantime : ).. keep your chin up.
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A wise man once told me...
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Another wise man, once told me...
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You'll always be a drummer, whether you own 1 kit, 10 kits, or no kits. Hang tough.
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That's a real shame, Ian. Hope things improve soon.

When I stopped playing I bought a cheap djembe at a market to tide me over. Also had a pair of bongos. It's good to have something to keep tapping on, although if worst comes to worst we always have our thighs (and anything else in the house that's hittable).

Actually, since I live in a flat, I'd do more drumming on my thighs / desks / railings etc than I get to play on my kit!
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Old 07-24-2010, 04:43 PM
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Ian how much do you need? If I sent 300.00 USD would that solve anything?
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Old 07-24-2010, 05:12 PM
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Good idea, Larry. We could chip in.

Ian, if you can cash Aussie cheques in Venezuela I'll chip in $100 if it will help you keep your kit.
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Hey its the ups and downs of life...Harrys got it right..You will always be a drummer......Do what you have to do....If thats what you have to do,.........there is another kit to be had down the road!!!.All the best to ya
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Old 07-25-2010, 07:16 AM
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Default Re: Rock and a hard place.

I've never been in the situation where I had no choice but to sell of drums, but I've been close.

Thankfully, I was able to work through it before getting to that point.

I hope you are able to solve your issues soon.
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Old 07-25-2010, 07:22 AM
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I vote with Larry and Polly that we all chip to help our friend keep his drums.
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Old 07-25-2010, 07:35 AM
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I'll match Larry's offer.

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Old 07-25-2010, 07:37 AM
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How can we do this?
Can we set up a Pay Pal fund or something like that that all can contribute to?
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Old 07-25-2010, 12:57 PM
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Paypal would work. If he does lose the kit, I would be willing to part with one of my snare drums, I'm sure we could all piece together a kit & pies with no problem.
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i have an old sabian ride i could donate \m/
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I'm young and don't have a ton of money, but seeing this kind of brings back my faith in people. I can match Polly's offer.
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Old 07-28-2010, 12:38 PM
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Shit, Ian, I've only just picked this up. Selling your kit, no way man! Count me in on the chipping in deal.

Guys, sending stuff is expensive. Ian obviously has a kit he likes. Surely the best option is to keep the kit. Paypal is probably the best option, although those little greedy bas&&*^rds take a fee.

Ian, I know this was not the intent of your post, & I also suspect you're probably (if you're anything like me) too proud to come back to this thread & say yes please. So let's cut through all the crap and PM your paypal account details (usually done through your email address) directly to the members that have offered a bit of help. Hey, if we've offered help, it's because we care about a fellow drummer, and because we can afford to loose a bit of our own cash. The truth be known, we also get a warm feeling of satisfaction that we've thought of someone other than ourselves for a change. Ian, do it, that's an order from KIS!!! I await your PM.

P.S. Ian, if you don't have a Paypal account, setting one up is real easy. You'll need a bank account, & an email address. You can set it up in 5 minutes online. Good luck.
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Old 07-28-2010, 12:54 PM
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Hey, that's sad to hear! Hope your family and home situation works out and you don't have to lose your beloved instrument!

I'm very much impressed and touched by your offers to donate money! I'd sure like to help out too, but I'm not sure if I can, unfortunately my wife and I have very little money ourselves at the moment. There have been some moments where we actually discussed selling some stuff too, but we didn't have to.

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Old 08-02-2010, 03:06 AM
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I appreciate your words Royal. Thanks!

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Sorry to hear that.

Apart from getting a loan I can't really think of what else to suggest as it's a very personal matter.

Hope it works out .
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Old 08-02-2010, 03:08 AM
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Thanks for cheering me up, mate!

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Old 08-02-2010, 03:12 AM
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Thanks a lot Harryconway. In my case, you are that wise-man.

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Old 08-02-2010, 03:15 AM
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Thanks Polly. At the end of day, if I have to I will hit things here and there.

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That's a real shame, Ian. Hope things improve soon.

When I stopped playing I bought a cheap djembe at a market to tide me over. Also had a pair of bongos. It's good to have something to keep tapping on, although if worst comes to worst we always have our thighs (and anything else in the house that's hittable).

Actually, since I live in a flat, I'd do more drumming on my thighs / desks / railings etc than I get to play on my kit!
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Old 08-02-2010, 03:23 AM
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Holy Larry! your willingness to help me out and from the fellows is amazing!!! I will send you a Private Message. Thank you!

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Old 08-02-2010, 03:25 AM
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You are a lovely woman Polly, thanks for the help. I will send a PM to you.

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Good idea, Larry. We could chip in.

Ian, if you can cash Aussie cheques in Venezuela I'll chip in $100 if it will help you keep your kit.
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Old 08-02-2010, 03:27 AM
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Thanks mate! true it's part of life.

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Hey its the ups and downs of life...Harrys got it right..You will always be a drummer......Do what you have to do....If thats what you have to do,.........there is another kit to be had down the road!!!.All the best to ya
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Old 08-02-2010, 03:28 AM
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Thanks for your kind words, mate.

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I've never been in the situation where I had no choice but to sell of drums, but I've been close.

Thankfully, I was able to work through it before getting to that point.

I hope you are able to solve your issues soon.
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Old 08-02-2010, 03:30 AM
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God bless you my friend.

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Old 08-02-2010, 03:35 AM
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I'm speechless, what a great support.

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Old 08-02-2010, 03:37 AM
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Thoughts from a real brother, thanks.

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Old 08-02-2010, 03:39 AM
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Thanks brother Joey, kind from you.

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Old 08-02-2010, 03:42 AM
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Thanks brother, it's good to see that you believe in people again...I do now.

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You are a real mate, I like that - action not words. I will send you a PM....Thanks.

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Shit, Ian, I've only just picked this up. Selling your kit, no way man! Count me in on the chipping in deal.

Guys, sending stuff is expensive. Ian obviously has a kit he likes. Surely the best option is to keep the kit. Paypal is probably the best option, although those little greedy bas&&*^rds take a fee.

Ian, I know this was not the intent of your post, & I also suspect you're probably (if you're anything like me) too proud to come back to this thread & say yes please. So let's cut through all the crap and PM your paypal account details (usually done through your email address) directly to the members that have offered a bit of help. Hey, if we've offered help, it's because we care about a fellow drummer, and because we can afford to loose a bit of our own cash. The truth be known, we also get a warm feeling of satisfaction that we've thought of someone other than ourselves for a change. Ian, do it, that's an order from KIS!!! I await your PM.

P.S. Ian, if you don't have a Paypal account, setting one up is real easy. You'll need a bank account, & an email address. You can set it up in 5 minutes online. Good luck.
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Old 08-02-2010, 03:50 AM
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Thanks brother, I hope things work out better for you and family as well. Thanks!

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Hey, that's sad to hear! Hope your family and home situation works out and you don't have to lose your beloved instrument!

I'm very much impressed and touched by your offers to donate money! I'd sure like to help out too, but I'm not sure if I can, unfortunately my wife and I have very little money ourselves at the moment. There have been some moments where we actually discussed selling some stuff too, but we didn't have to.

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Old 08-02-2010, 04:16 AM
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Beloved Brothers & Sisters,

First off, I want to - thank - each one of you. I took the time to read and answer each previous threads, because it was my duty to do so.

I'm speechless.You have the willingness, solidarity, to support and help another fellow drummer (Me, in this case) with any kind of resources available. It's just surprisingly and astonishing, I can't imagine.

Now, I do believe there are drummers, people with "A word of honour, faith and a great noble heart" above selffishness and materialism. Drummers are like Soldiers, United!

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I'm new to the site, but, if you get a paypal thing going, let me know. I'll contribute what I can.
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here,here I don't. have a lot of money but i'll contribute also. just let us know Ian.

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Ian, please send me a PM when you work out the details of the account, I'm able to contribute as well.
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count me in, just PM the details.

ive been down this road before, actually twise, where i had to sell my rig. a real bummer.
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Ian, I got your PM and I will send you what I can.
It isn't much, because times have been hard for me also.
It has been slow for me at work too. Gig money has also been hard to come by.
I am still OK, but I have a daughter in college and I too have many expenses at the current time.
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Old 08-05-2010, 06:45 AM
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Welcome on board and thanks for the kind words!

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No worries brother, I know you meant it from the heart...Thanks!

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