Well I have thought a lot over the last days, thinking about the possibility for a custom kit etc., but I always get drawn somehow back to buying the kit at Thomann (or maybe Musicstore) in Germany, to me it seems like the best prices, when you add in shipping and all that (to Norway, remember...). UK stores have higher prices in my experience, and getting one from the US will have a much higher shipping price. So in that case, I would be a little limited to what these stores sell (but they have quite a lot!)
I might concider an european custom company though, but haven't found one yet that I really wanted to buy from. I'm a bit concerned about resale value and getting spare parts easily if something breaks... Should be easier with a big brand name...
As for other big names I have considered, Yamaha could have been a choice until they just dropped all the high-end lines. Who knows what they will release, I don't think I have time to find out... Pearl Reference could be something, but never liked them that much (heard them live several times, never really got me hooked). Tama, as said, I have owned their entire Starclassic lineup (every woodtype). Very good drums, but now I want something different.
I think I've almost decided on the Prolite though, I have checked out the ebony stripe finish more an more, and might go with that instead. Seems more interesting than all black. Nussbaum is nice too, though.
Thanks again for the comments