ok Sticks, i completely backed out all lugs since the low tuning you suggested had me almost there anyway and readjusted the batter hoop and head because it came jacked/not centered from the factory. I then finger tightened every lug bolt and to make sure there is no misunderstanding on what finger tight is, I mean that all bolts were tightened as tight as my fingers can get them. Then instead of proceeding to tighten with the drum key I decided lets see where my finger tightening reads on the drum dial and to my surprise it read an average of 72-73. My drum dial was zero'd out so everything was well there, I don't think a flabby head sounds good and my initial tuning on the first vid I posted was a hair or two over JAW, which was 76-ish.
Something is not right with your drum dial or my dial but finger tight on my lugs reads 72-73 on the DD.
If you listen to Gregg Bissonette's (which I'm sure you have) mapex saturn vid his 14" floor tom has a very nice tone to it. I can't imagine his floor tom is right at JAW, maybe a just a tiny bit higher?
In regards to your vid, I have seen it numerous times and while they sound sweet with your playing I'm not so sure if your tuning would fit my style. I did take your advice also on my 10 rack and lowered that a bit and I like it more now but my 14" floor tom with your advice went LIMP, LIMPOLLA, DOA, Arrivederci, Adios, you get my point?
So I'm a bit confused!!!!! LOL