Re: Need life advice about job offer from fellow drummers.
Move to the UK and take advantage of the National Health Service ;) Failing that, do what you love and prepare to make some sacrifices elsewhere in your life in exchange for it. If you have any other skills, like teaching drums part time, use them to supplement your income. Assess the possibilities of going further in the music retail industry further down the line and focus on the skills required to advance in this admittedly difficult industry. Most importantly, follow your heart while your young enough to do so.