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Old 02-14-2012, 08:46 AM
aydee aydee is offline
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Default Re: Girls&Relationships vs. Drums&Music


I think you are mixing up two issues here. I think you are shy and need a little achoholic bolstering to feel comfortable around girls- not an unusual phenomenon at all - AND that you want to pin it on music being the reason that you might be a little socially awkward.

Sorry to play online armchair psychiatrist but this is what it looks like from where I am.

I think if you approach this with a healthy attitude and get yourself comfortable and natural around members of the opposite sex, music and women dont need to be at odds with each other. Heck you might get lucky with an awesome chick bass player.. ( I mean that musically, of course )

For further tips, please hit up Swiss Mathais on how to hadle this locally.


Last edited by aydee; 02-14-2012 at 10:34 AM.
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