Re: Girls&Relationships vs. Drums&Music
Even apart from drumming, we don't have time in our lives for everything.
We always have to choose. I think that's a good thing, because we learn
what's important to us.
My experience: Sometimes I kind of wish I was alone, to have more time
and freedom for my own things, like practicing. But my girl definitely made
me more mature, more responsible, and all around a better person I think.
And as if that wouldn't be enough on its own, those attributes are definitely
helping as a musician, too :).
We shouldn't forget: Being successful as a drummer doesn't just mean
having practiced like crazy and being the fastest, the most complex and
most skillful drummer. It can, but it doesn't guarantee anything, nor does
it mean as much as we think.