Originally Posted by DrummerPady
That's exactly my problem.
And I'm doing all this things you're talking aout, I'm going to the gym 5 times a week, I go out like every four months because I'm practicing, and everything I do is because of drumming.
But there are some moments where I would be happy to have someone, right now I'm having such a moment. But there aren't many of these moments.
I want to thank you all for your posts and advices.
Well I think you're doing all the right stuff. As I say, try not to worry about it until you're in a position when you feel like you could spare the time for that sort of commitment without giving up on what you want to do in life, which is drumming.
Originally Posted by MaryO
It will be the right time when you find someone you are willing to spend time with. If you're not willing to put anything into the relationship, you're not going get anything out of it...that simple.
That is certainly true. Unfortunately, you don't always get anything out of a relationship even if you do put the time and effort into it.