Originally Posted by DrummerPady
It wouldn't be about sex or anything you just mentioned, it would be because I like her and want to be with her. And I'm spending so much energy and time into drums I'd like to have someone to can rely on.
I'm afraid you're right, it's not the right time for me to have a girlfriend, I'm not enough mature for this.
It's time to play drums and to stop thinking about how it could be having a relationship.
When did you started to have a relationship? How did you know it was the right time and the right person?
I'm guessing you're not in your 20's yet? Just do what you do, & if someone comes along who's interested in you, then pick the ball up & run with it. There is no right time, & it's certainly something you can't plan for or control. Have fun, be yourself, then if someone is interested, at least they're interested in you, not the image you may wish to put out there.