Girls&Relationships vs. Drums&Music
I kind of have a problem and I hope I'm not the only one having it.
Here's the thing:
I'm totally into music and drums,
and when I go out the only thing I can think about is the music that's playing in this place and that I could be playing drums instead of beeing at the party. So when I'm there I can't really flirt with girls except for when I'm a little drunk. Then I don't care anymore about the music and dance with everybody and I'm kind of charming.
Well, the problem is that I don't want to have to be drunk if I want to get something started with a woman. Sometimes I wished I had girlfriend but my mind says "girls are bad, they steal your time to make music".
I can't support this anymore, because I don't know what I want.
Do I want a girlfriend? -Yes
Do I want have to spend time with her? -No
Do I want to become a professional musician? -Yes
Do I want to have someone to rely on? -Yes
I hope you might have some experience and can help me, or advise me to do something.
If you want to you can say: "hey bro, you're crazy".
thanks for reading this and I hope you can understand what I'm saying.
Greetings from Switzerland