Originally Posted by Pollyanna
One option is to simplify your life and skip the whole dalliance thing. If it happens it happens. If not, you have a friend.
There's no (official) law decreeing that you date anyone. You can be happily single, unencumbered, free, able to focus on playing music ... and you need never watch a chick flick or tag along on shoe shopping expeditions.
That's the way I am now. I remembered being married and doing that stuff. I swear they need more sitting chairs strategically placed in the women's clothes department for men to bide their time with a cell phone or a magazine because they're gonna be there for awhile.