Originally Posted by kettles
Nah man, just try again, until she goes on a date with you she isn't really going to know. Story - I tried it on one night and got turned down pretty hard. Tried again the following day and found success. It's been 3 years and I'm still with her. Just don't turn into a stalker! If you have made a few attempts and it really isn't happening, then sure, let it go, but once isn't really enough.
And at the same time, go after other girls, just because you like one, doesn't mean you can't have fun with others. I wish someone had given me this advice when I was younger.
Trust me man, with this one, one time is enough. This girl is one of those that seems like she'd be a blast to hang out with, just like one of the guys, but there are plenty of others that I'd be better for in terms of dating.