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Old 11-19-2011, 05:17 PM
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Default Re: Having trouble asking a girl out in college

Originally Posted by Pollyanna View Post
What's the difference between chatting with a male or female musician anyway? Gonads and hormones. Are you comfortable with the friends she's hanging out with? Who knows? You may find that some of her friends have friend potential for you too.

That way, you can hang with her circle. That will not only make it easier to have etet a tete chats (which is what the lunch is about) with the added bonus of seeing how she interacts with the others. It can't hurt knowing more about what you're getting yourself in for. Worst case scenario: you dodge a bullet.
Best reply for me so far, it makes so much sense...

Originally Posted by drummindan8484 View Post
Thing is though, I never thought about trying to come up with some big plan to woo her. Just thought I'd do it the easy way, just start talking, strike up a friendship, go out somewhere casual and see where it goes from there. So far it seems to be working out...
Keep the friendship carrying on, so you'll know each other better, you'll find the right time to ask her out when the times come up... It will come naturally.
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