Re: Dealing with a band member you don't like
I have to say I agree with all the others here. This is definitely an opportunity to learn patience. I play drums for my church too and we also have a diva, actually a married couple. Imagine the Howell's from Gilligan's Island...crank it up about 20 notches. They are the most arrogant d-bags I've ever met. Thankfully they only sing every couple weeks or so.
Just tune it out and focus on what you are there for.