Originally Posted by Joey182
I got the drums back (for now) So when I get home tonight I will be setting them back up. Probably into a 4 piece to focus more on what counts instead of all the flare.
I honestly won't be too surprised if I have them back down next week, because he grows sick of it very quickly...
I'm baffled by the fact that no groundrules have been established. Like everyone else has said, this could be a huge waste of everyone's time, especially if it is totally up to your father in deciding at the spur of the moment whether you can play or not.
Obviously I don't know your detailed situation, and hope I'm wrong, but based on everything you've posted, something seems really wrong with your relationship with your father.