Originally Posted by Morbid Koala
According to your post, your dad's nuts.
So....either run away from home now or stay home and save up all the money you'd be spending on custom built, acrylic drum kits you wouldn't get to play anyway until you moved out.
On the bright side, having parental problems usually blossoms into some kind of creative streak that can help you out for a good part of your twenties while you cut your teeth in a whatever 'fill in the blank-core' band you wind up in.
He is nuts!
I do think that creativity will blossom, mostly music about growing up and troubles as a teen, but yeah!