Re: Band wives and female patrons
So there is a reason why we are put at the back after all!
Wow sounds like a tough situation but to be honest with you, I don't blame the woman for going off it, after all it's her partner and the person she loves and this other woman just wanted to pour salt in the wound after she had warned her off. God help the woman that would kiss me during a gig.
If it's happened 3 times, your singer just must be irresistible.
I can see this being a problem for the band though, I think it is up to your singer to talk to his partner and to reassure her that there is no harm in it and that if it happens again, nothing is going to come of it.
I wouldn't make a big deal out of it with your singer but you could just say, 'have you sorted things with your wife?' It might trigger him to think about it differently in terms of affecting the band.
Totally addicted to BASS....drum...pedals