Re: Band wives and female patrons
Larry, maybe it's a good time to find a second band as insurance in case this one gets too messy? I don't see it as a male / female issue - more a redneck / civilised person issue. There are ways to voice displeasure without carrying on like an animal.
Not sure I'd say anything at this stage. It's one incident. If it happens again then if anything is said it should be a united front with the other neutral member together highlighting the problem to the singer and gently discussing the problem and what can be done.
Strangely enough, we haven't had any women throwing themselves at our singer! Can you believe that? :) Sadly, no men have been throwing themselves at me either ...