Re: What would you not tell your wife, or girlfriend.
Haha, this thread is really funny!
The OP so desperately wants it to be light and humorous, but his posts break his own rules - and the thread actually gets deeper than many other thread.
Plus the OP so strongly assures this wasn't a troll thread, but his own posts make him look like one :).
On a serious side (sorry woz), I think I'm with Larry. Although it's mostly the harder way, I believe the relationships profits and gets stronger when the partners are quite honest and open to each other.
But I'm also with Jay, both individuals are individuals, and I believe the relationship actually is healthier when both have a strong character, and not kind of dependent on each other.