Originally Posted by aydee
To be able to mesh your voice into the music rather than simply overlay it, comes with a lot of experience IMO.
I like that - meshing rather than overlaying.
We've all been playing for yonks so it also comes down to ears and taste. Can old dogs learn new tricks? I think we are all learning new tricks as we go, or at least remembering long-forgotten old ones.
The hard part is getting past his insecurity, pride, preconceived ideas or whatever so he will consider taking my - a mere drummer's - ideas seriously.