Re: Bass Players
The bassists I've played mostly fall neatly into two groups - most are the laid back, relaxed and pleasant types who are team players. The others want to be in the driving seat - either by virtue of being a "star" bassist or by owning band gear, rehearsal space etc and they are spiky critters.
I haven't played in bands with another drummer but I'm guessing that we can be roughly split into the same categories too.
Very glad that I'm getting old and lost my looks - it makes for an uncomplicated, peaceful life :)