Re: Point of View - Behavior of Band Members at Gig
That sounds pretty unprofessional. I wouldn't let any of my band members play my drums unless there was a reason for it. I don't think it's an age difference, I'm 29, and I know I felt the same way about this type of "wanking" when I was even younger.
the acoustic solo stuff is fine i've seen many groups do that, mainly to have some soft dinner/happy hour music before the show starts.