Re: girlfriends, wives, and the like coming to gigs
I would say you are VERY fortunate. She is demonstrating her commitment by being involved in what YOU love to do and are passionate about. My band's last drummer quit because his new girlfriend didn't like him spending any time away from her (very selfish)
My wife still supports me and the band by selling CD's, coming to shows and wearing the band's T's when she goes out. You have a good fiance who loves sharing time with you. You are blessed.