To older drummers: Did you ever have a shot at something big, making it in a band, or something that big, and give it all up for the same old thing, not wanting to step out of the comfort zone, or give it up for a girl or man?? Do you regret it now?? Those sorts of shots don't always come and then give it up??
What do you think? When you are young, you think you have all the time in the world, and then you wake up and you're not so young anymore.