I second www.talkbass.com
. Yes it's a large forum but it's on the scale of drummerworld, as far as organization and professionalism. You might feel like no one will read your thread after it gets buried, but they will.
Also if you ever need to sell anything, 98% of the time you can sell it there first rather than Ebay. Where as here, no offense to anyone, but because of the younger age demographic, I have a harder time selling things here and I usually resort to Ebay.