Originally Posted by Mr. Pasquini
These guys asked me to be in a band with them. I don't know what to do... I love playing with people and they're fun guys but they are NOT serious...
That's what you tell them. Jammin' is fun, bein' in a band should be fun, but it's also work. If these cats are incapable of showing "the right stuff", then jam with them when "your" time allows, but don't let them interfere with any serious music projects you have going.