Re: Why is it so hard to find people to jam with?
Hmm.. In that case I would search google regularly for bands seeking drummers in your area.
Another idea is to check back with contacts that you haven't heard from in a while (not the ones that it didn't work out with). A lot of the time it is just a lack of communication issue - musicians do tend to be lazy at times.
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