Originally Posted by StaggerLee
My paraplegic mother has gotten worse and I am finding more and more of my time is being spent looking after her.
Oliver, this is huge for a guy of your age. I don't want to go into depth here, but it's something I had to do for quite a while until I lost my mother. The one thing you need to be aware of is just how fantastic a person you are. Your mother knows that, & you should know that too. Your care of your mother eclipses just about any achievement you could aspire to at this point in your life. I mean wow, I'm in awe of you, & proud to be associated with you.
Are you based in the UK at the moment?
I wish I could influence the judges in the snare competition you've entered. Unfortunately, I can't :(