Re: Quietest Electronic Drum set
If silence is all that matters, I'd definitely give Aerodrums a go, can't beat air drums for quietness. Of course, I would say that, I co-invented it;)
Another advantage for the OP is it's easy to bring somewhere: it weighs under two pounds and the biggest part of it is your sticks.
About rebound, it's hard to convince people without them being able to try. Drummers who tried it at NAMM liked it. Did you take a look at our video about rebound?