Re: When a non-drummer moves your gear.
This reminds me of something I read from Ray Herrera from Fear Factory. They were on their first tour and his buddy was tagging along as an all purpose "tech"
The first nights show was over and he told Raymond he'd "tear down" his drum kit. Raymond came back a while later and his buddy had taken EVERYTHING apart with an electric driver.
Bare shells. Heads and rims off. Lugs and cymbal stand screws and floor tom legs were separated into little baggies. I guess his friend thought that was how drummers do it.