Re: My new band collapsed...
I'm with eclipse - when people are quick to bail I suspect they weren't very interested anyway.
I organised a meet with a few guys to start a cover band last week and the bass player refused to pay his share of the room cost at the end. He said he's never paid to audition.. but it was the first time any of us had met? No one pulls a stunt like that unless they want to burn bridges.
I agree with Dre25