Re: Suggestions for a Flat Ride?
You might want to check out the Zildjian K Light Ride. I use one to the right of my main ride.
It has all the things you are looking for. The only drawback I could think of is it may not be loud enough in some situations. But I mostly play in a jazz trio or quartet so it's usually not a problem.
If you do a search on Youtube for the cymbal you will find some of the MyCymbal.com guys playing a couple of them.
I added a 3 rivet cluster to mine for a little sizzle. It actually crashes really well too.