Re: How rare is it to find a band that has a practice space with a kit for you to use? Advice needed
I think this falls under the old "If you have to ask..."
If you are already wondering of you should be with this band, then you probably shouldn't. Just glancing through the thread I see a lot of red flags with the band and it seems you know what they are too.
Finding a good band in which you gel can take some time but it's better than being stuck with guys you really don't like or at least don't agree with on several issues just because they have a drum kit at their rehearsal space.