Re: Hello, I'm new here :)
I'm a big fan of starting as dead simple as you can. Like pick a song that you yourself just know you can play, and then try it. You may find that it's harder than you think. If not great, but do not skip past "simple" stuff because you think it's a waste of time. The basics are really what drummers use most. Give them their due diligence, you will be glad you did.
BTW welcome Magenta. It's good to see the female ranks of DrummerWorld keep growing. You are in good company already.
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