There is literally no possible way to have a band play in a complex.
My roommates play a bluegrass band. They don't even have an upright bass and neighbors still tell us to buzz off. I won't even stuff my bass with a dozen comforters and use brushes on my snare, although if I could we would be a sweet Mumford and Sons sound.
bottom line- no. sucks
Currently in a long-distance relationship with my Gretsch due to college.
And 'It's complicated'