Re: What have you learned about neediness while being a drummer?
I'm guessing real the crux of this thread is less to do with drumming and more to do with the fact that you can't get laid, yeah? Forget the online angle and try the real world for a bit. Go to a bar, talk to a girl, buy her a drink. Guys have suceeded in picking up birds face to face for millions of years prior to the internet.
What's the best cape for running away from a gig?