Originally Posted by NerfLad
Well first of all, congratulations!
I wish there was a way for me to... help her to want to; I'm really into her and don't want to give her up over something like this. She's one of the most intelligent, caring, insightful, intellectually challenging, hard working, mature people I've ever met, and certainly that I've ever had a relationship with. I wish I could describe her to you. She's also adorable, for what that's worth.
Again...I hate to sound like a broken record but I really hope you are telling HER all of the things you are telling us! She needs to know why you care so much about whether she smokes or not. Telling us won't do any good, telling her might.
Although everyone else is right, unless she's ready, you're still fighting a losing battle. :(