Re: How can I get my girlfriend to see how badly she needs to quit smoking?
The 2 choices I see are to accept her like she is, smoke and all, or explain to her that it's a dealbreaker and give her an ultimatum, cigs or you. I wouldn't bet on it sticking, but hey, you never know.
I don't know that there's a middle ground, unless you're the kind that can enforce rules on her, such as no smoking when you are around, not in the house, not in your car, not after sex etc.
I think it's appalling how the government sanctions this harmful product. She is exactly the way our leaders want us, unhealthy and dependent on their drugs.