Re: How can I get my girlfriend to see how badly she needs to quit smoking?
I'm very sorry to hear about your situation. The problem is - she is an addict. And as such will face the same issues every other addict suffers from.
Either she likes it, and won't stop, thinking you're an idiot or mean because you don't accept her for who she is.
Or she started for some other reason that may no longer apply.
Bottom line, she belongs to RJ Reynolds now (or whatever name they go by). Invest. At least you'll get a dividend every quarter, regardless if she ends up with a stoma or lung cancer.