Re: Difficulty with coworker / new job
Well, you can always tell who the racists are when they preface what they say with "Now, I'm not a racist, but..." (etc for many other attitudes.)
Seriously, ya just gotta laugh at people like that. Or feel sorry for them, or whatever. But you can't let them get under your skin. Just go through the day knowing you're better than they are.
Sorta like drummers who overplay. I love them! They make me look good!