First things first, what kind of pads are you using? PD-85's? If so, tighten them nice any tight. This will help with hot spotting.
Secondly, adjust the trigger settings on the module to work best with your playing style. I put together a tutorial on the Vdrums forum about tuning a TD-30, but a lot of what I have in there applies to all modules. Take a look at it and follow along as best as you can with your module. Here is the link:
http://www.vdrums.com/forum/forum/a...ing-trigger-setup-initial-settings-discussion
After that, just make sure you set the kit up how you would set up an acoustic kit. Make it feel comfortable and play it exactly like you would an acoustic kit. Don't be afraid to hit the pads. They are made to take the abuse.