yell for ¨SECURITY !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!¨ .
I'm reminded of an old saying. If someone calls you an ass, simply reply "Thanks for sharing." If two people call you an ass, you might want to consider it. If three people call you an ass, buy a saddle.Someone who would actually say that to someone in person has got problems of their own to sort out, I think. It's often helpful to recognise that, even to empathise with it. It takes the heat out of the whole situation.
Usually, since I'm a girl drummer, I get this alot from guys.... but that's before I actually play.. so it's funny seeing their faces afterward. but, being a girl... hitting someone over that is useless. I don't usually argue but I'd rather let my drumming speak for itself. Which usually works, unless the other person is like a deathcore drummer and doesn't realize that drumming to a different genre doesn't make you a crappy drummer... and I've come across drummers like that. :/i just wanna see what people would do if someone went up to your face and said "you are a really crappy drummer. i mean, im better than you."
why i post this? cuz it happened to me today, and i didnt know if i should've hit the guy, or tried to talk about it with him.